Showing posts with label anxiety. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anxiety. Show all posts

Monday, March 31, 2008

Love is not an issue

I just opened up with my husband about the hardship that I am encountering and how I really feel about it. Just like the persona that I use, it is only I, meaning I feel alone and thinks that I am the only one who is affected and suffering from our financial crisis. Yes, how petty? But, the truth is, money matters in every situation. It is passé that money is the root of all evils. No one can discount the fact that everyone needs money to survive. Sometimes we live to work and work to live. Why? To earn.

I cannot say that we had a fight because I just told him what I really feel. But, I agree that money is the most sensitive topic to talk about. But, what can I do? I had to tell him. You know what he did? He left the house without a word? Men are always like that, I guess. They escape rather than accept defeat. I do not know what is going through his mind right now. I do not understand why men do not have tongues to verbalize their plans.

Do I feel guilty? Should I? I was just trying to communicate. Well, I pray that he will be enlightened as he drives around with his motorcycle. I pray for his safety also. You know, love is not an issue when problems come along the way. But, there should be a solution to enjoy the loving.

Tuesday, February 5, 2008

Wipe off those credit card bills

Wipe off those credit card bills. Financial health status can also affect physical health. Of course, we use money to buy food.LOL! Kidding aside, people who are in financial distress form certain anxieties. There are sleepless nights. It can also result to depression.Worst, others who cannot take it anymore got sick. There are actually lots of worst scenarios because of unhealthy financial status.So, what to do when already in that situation? Start wiping them off. One example is getting indebted because of misuse of credit cards. As I always say, hey using that plastic seems free but no! You have to pay for it! There is no point looking at the past. Address the present situation. Most importantly learn your lesson. Be financially healthy again!