Half awake

Yes, I am awake but would still want to sleep. I am half awake? I want to post a thing or two here since I need to. Hehehehe. Yes, that is why I do not like to just blog around because I will not make any sense at all. I really do not have to write about as of this time as all I want is to go back to bed and close my eyes. My boys are still sleeping, why can't I just join them? Is this what I have to pay being the Mom? Good thing I do not have to prepare breakfast because it is only milk and taho for my kid while for husband, coffee and bread or the instant cereal will do. For me? Nothing! Yes, diet!

a Happy day!

Okay, time to go! My husband is taking a bath right now and expects us to get ready too. Oh, I hope he could understand that I am still sleepy, groggy and all that. Well, no, he did not make me loose sleep last night. :) It was my own fault. I watched too much TV. Now, I have to suffer the consequences.

Anyways, I know that it would still be a happy day!

How do you manage petty quarrels?

I am praying for patience everyday. With all the pressures inside the household and in the office, patience is really needed. I admire all those who keep their cool, every time. In our house, we always have petty quarrels. Sometimes, I get into it and eventually make it big, And then I thought, oh, the matter is too small to be given time and attention. I should have shrugged my shoulders off and did not mind it at all. What if those fights become frequent? If you add one plus one, it becomes two and so on and so forth. You might just wake up one day that there is already a very big dark cloud inside your home. Keep mum about it? Stay quiet? Accept it? Everyday is a continuous struggle thru life. I hope I will make it.

Love is not an issue

I just opened up with my husband about the hardship that I am encountering and how I really feel about it. Just like the persona that I use, it is only I, meaning I feel alone and thinks that I am the only one who is affected and suffering from our financial crisis. Yes, how petty? But, the truth is, money matters in every situation. It is passé that money is the root of all evils. No one can discount the fact that everyone needs money to survive. Sometimes we live to work and work to live. Why? To earn.

I cannot say that we had a fight because I just told him what I really feel. But, I agree that money is the most sensitive topic to talk about. But, what can I do? I had to tell him. You know what he did? He left the house without a word? Men are always like that, I guess. They escape rather than accept defeat. I do not know what is going through his mind right now. I do not understand why men do not have tongues to verbalize their plans.

Do I feel guilty? Should I? I was just trying to communicate. Well, I pray that he will be enlightened as he drives around with his motorcycle. I pray for his safety also. You know, love is not an issue when problems come along the way. But, there should be a solution to enjoy the loving.

Funny but true

Do you think the picture is funny? Or, would you rather say that is actually true? Of course, this picture will not come into mind if there was no inspiration behind it.You could take it as a joke that men seem to take for granted their women or wives for that matter during their marriage. I am not surprised that there is a high percentage of divorce. But, I do not blame it only to men. It takes two to tango as they say.